Custody battles are very difficult because there are so many people involved. The parents, the child, and their loved ones. Everyone generally wants what is best but no one can seem to agree what that is. At Law Office of Michael L. Fell we are ready to help you through a custody battle, just call our offices at 949-585-9055. You can also keep reading to learn four of the things that every person going through this should know.
- It is Unlikely That Anything That Happened Before the Child Was Born Will Have an Impact
- The Court is Going to Rule in the Best Interest of the Child
- Working with a Mediator Might Be the Right Option
- Stay Calm and Focus on the Goal
We see all too often that one side has some “dirt” on the other and assumes they can use that against them to get the custody or child support they want. If your co-parent knows something about you but it happened before your child was even born, you can count on it having very little if any effect on the custody case you are involved in today.
If your ex is making your life difficult right now, just take a deep breath and remember that the court’s only interest is in doing what is in the best interest of the child. If you are calm and collected through the proceedings, can provide evidence to satisfy your demands, and do as your family law attorney suggests, then you are likely to get an outcome you can live with.
It is common for both sides of the battle to believe that they are 100% right and be totally unwilling to compromise. We understand how difficult this situation is, but it is important to remember that the outcome might not go your way. If it is possible for you and the other party to come up with an agreement you can both feel okay about, then you should do this. Working with a mediator can make it a lot easier.
We know it is difficult, but you must stay calm through the process. Remember that the goal is to do what is best for your child. Choose a compassionate, experienced attorney who can help you fight for your child or children. You can reach Law Office of Michael L. Fell now at 949-585-9055 for a free legal consultation.

