How to Tell Your Kid(s) You Are Getting Divorced from Your Spouse
Posted on: October 6, 2022
Children can be incredibly resilient to many things, but divorce is an extremely sensitive subject that can leave them feeling vulnerable. For good reasons, you may be concerned about how to tell your child(ren) that you and your spouse are getting a divorce.
Revealing the news is a delicate matter that needs to be handled with the utmost care. Otherwise, you may unintentionally cause emotional and psychological harm to your child, and the disclosure may impact your relationship with your child.
The Family Law offices of Michael L. Fell understand how sensitive divorce hearings can be and will be able to guide you through the process. Call (949) 585-9055 today to speak to a representative or schedule a free consultation online.
Tips on How to Tell Your Child(ren) You’re Getting a Divorce
It may seem that there is no right way to tell your kid(s) about getting a divorce and there is certainly more than one way to do it. Some helpful tips include:
- Telling the truth
- Encouraging your children to ask questions
- Reminding them that they’re not to blame in any way for the divorce
- Avoiding blaming the other parent for the marriage’s failures
- Telling your children that you love them no matter what happens
- Listening to your children and validating their feelings
- Reassuring your children that everything will be okay in the end
- Finding a way to create a schedule and a routine that will provide your children with some sense of normalcy
Of course, how you break the news varies from relationship to relationship, so it is ultimately up to you to determine the best course of action.
Make Sure to Take Care of Yourself Too
Being worried about your child’s state of mind is an admirable trait, but it is also important to take care of yourself as well. You can not properly take care of their needs if you are neglecting your own. Find healthy ways to alleviate the stressors that coincide with the process of divorce. Things like exercise, hobbies, going on hikes, learning new things, and cooking. Activities like those will stimulate your brain to produce more positive energy so you can look after your child’s best interests.
A Divorce Attorney You Can Trust
Reach out to Family Law Attorney Michelle L. Tran and her team to let the best Orange County legal team represent your divorce case. Call (949) 585-9055 to speak to one of our professionals or schedule a free consultation online.
