Three Feelings People Having During a Divorce That Are Much More Common Than They Think
Posted on: October 9, 2019
Many people wish for years to have the “nerve” to file for divorce and when they do, they end up having feelings that are quite confusing to them. The truth is that almost every divorce is complicated. No matter how much you do or don’t want the divorce, you are likely to have feelings you did not seem coming.
This is just one of the reasons you need an experienced family law attorney on your side. No matter what you are feeling or how difficult the process is, you will have an attorney who is there to do nothing but protect your rights. Keep reading to learn about three feelings that common for people going through a divorce and then contact Law Office of Michael L. Fell at (949) 585-9055 if you are in need of a free legal consultation.
- Depression Despite Having Wanted to Divorce for a Long Time
- Fear of Dying Alone
- Difficulty Dealing with Any Task or Amount of Stress
It is common that a person has been dreaming of the day they could get divorced from their spouse they have been unhappily married to. They are then shocked to discover that when it is time for the divorce, they actually become depressed.
On the surface, it may seem as though this makes no sense but the fact is that there were reasons you married your spouse in the first place and it is likely that you had some good times. You may have children together, or you may simply have had dreams for the two of you at one point that it is finally sinking in are never going to come true. This is a big change and it is normal to have big feelings about it.
Whether the marriage is “good” or “bad,” it likely provides some stability in your life, including giving people the feeling that they are not going to die alone. Many people who are getting divorced cannot stand the idea of dating and getting remarried – so surely dying alone is the only option? The truth is that there are many options out there that can provide comfort in your older years – and most of them do not involve romantic love.
The divorce process can be quite tedious and it can involve a lot of stress. You are also likely dealing with moving to a new home, changing your utilities, potentially changing your name, opening new bank accounts – the list can seem endless. In fact, all too often couples stay married simply because the idea of going through this hassle doesn’t seem worth it.
Only you know if now is the time to divorce. If you think it may be then we suggest you contact Law Office of Michael L. Fell at (949) 585-9055 for a free, confidential case evaluation. We can help you better understand your options so that you can make the most informed decision.