How to Handle Some of the Most Common Issues That Come Up Around Child Visitation
Posted on: February 16, 2022
It makes no difference why you divorced or how you feel about your ex. If you have a child visitation agreement in place, it must be followed by both parties. Unfortunately, this does not always happen in tumultuous divorce procedures. If required, Law Office of Michael L. Fell will assist with child custody and visitation changes. Meanwhile, keep reading to learn about some of the most typical concerns with these contracts and how to effectively deal with them.
Being late for drop-off and pick-up
If it appears that your ex is often late when picking up or dropping off the kids, it may appear that they are wasting your time and showing you disrespect. It might be tough to arrange your own life as a result of this. While shouting at your ex or being enraged with them may appear to be the only natural reaction, it is unlikely to get you what you desire.
If you become irritated, they will become defensive, and you will just wind up bickering. To avoid this, gently remind yourself that the schedule you’ve created is there for a purpose. Let them know that if it isn’t working for them, it could be possible to change it so that they can be more punctual. If you stick to logic rather than emotion, you might be able to solve the situation permanently.
Having your visit canceled
It may appear as though your ex is always coming up with fresh reasons why they can’t see the kids during their scheduled visitation period. They might be sick, have a work difficulty, or be unable to get about because they lack transportation. This is not only inconvenient for you, but it may also be upsetting and unpleasant for the children.
Once again, the key to dealing with this problem is to keep your wrath hidden. Pay attention to how your children are feeling. Have an open and honest dialogue with them, assuring them that it is not their fault that their parent has betrayed them again and again. It’s not going to help if you yell at your ex or talk poorly about them. Remember that your children still adore you, and the last thing you want to do is put them in a stressful position.
Schedule alterations
Things happen, and the timetable may alter, despite everyone’s best efforts. You’ll very certainly have to deal with changes in your ex’s schedule, and they’ll almost certainly have to deal with changes in yours. If you need to make permanent modifications, though, you should go to court. Remember that consistency is vital for your children, and both you and your ex should try to stick to the plan as much as possible. When the timetable is clearly and legally written out, this is the easiest thing to accomplish.
For a consultation, call Law Office of Michael L. Fell at (949) 585-9055 if you have questions about your child visitation agreement or if you’re just starting the process of separating or divorce.
